How to write 40th birthday wishes
By forty, most people have stopped pretending and started enjoying themselves. That's the energy to bring to a 40th birthday card: celebrate who they've become, not just how many years have passed. A little teasing about reading glasses or early bedtimes is welcome, as long as the card ends with genuine warmth.
Partners can look back at the life you've built together, the kids, homes or adventures along the way. Friends can bring up the old days and promise more ahead. For a coworker or boss, keep it upbeat and avoid "over the hill" jokes; celebrate their experience instead.